November 1 is “All Saints’ Day,” a time to reflect on those who are no longer physically with us and enjoy eternal rest. I also believe it is a time to acknowledge, in gratitude, appreciation for the elders living among us.
In 1864, William How (1823-1897), an English Anglican Bishop, wrote a beloved hymn, “For All the Saints.” Of the six stanzas, the third stanza is a favorite of mine.
O blest communion, fellowship divine!
We feebly struggle, they in glory shine;
yet all are one in Thee, for all are Thine.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
The stanza expresses a connection with those who have passed on. We often pray, including the statement, “in the blessed communion with the saints,” signifying that there is a relationship between the living and the dead. In our ministry, we remember loved ones by memorializing them with flowers on the altar or baptistery rail. There are times during the Lord’s Supper we are invited to call the names of loved ones and friends who have passed. We may visit the graves of loved ones. Our homes are filled with pictures of loved ones and friends who have passed on. Keepsakes and memorabilia remind us of shared experiences.
We often hear it said at funerals that our loved ones are not gone, they are just sleeping. Although the vision of them sleeping is comforting, we continue to grieve that they are no longer physically with us. How said we “feebly struggle, they in glory shine.” Grief is tough work; it never ends. With time, we get better at it, but we have to discover ways of coping.
For believers in Christ, we stand and lean on our faith. The words from the Book of Revelation offer us eternal hope. John said, “‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away (Revelation 21.4).”
This week, remember our loved ones who are no longer with us. Celebrate the elders who remain. By God’s grace, all of us are on this journey. May the Lord be pleased with our living.
Amen.
